COMPARE HOW GIRLS AND BOYS CHANGE AFTER FALLING IN LOVE
“Love is said to be a virus, which can happen anytime, anywhere”
Love is that mesmerizing and magical feeling that can only be sensed. The ecstatic feeling of love always enhances the dopamine level to a new extreme level.
However, Love has different impacts when it comes to both men and women. Men and women are very contrasting in their nature and behaviour, which is of course very well described in John Gary’s famous book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”. This book is undoubtedly the hub of the mismatched emotional needs, communicating deviations and the understandability factor of each gender. This book was basically written to improve the relationships between men and women.
Men values his abilities, women rates her emotions
Men of course value their abilities more than the emotions. Men love to be appreciated for their calibre whereas women love to be appreciated and acknowledged for their emotions. Both the gender hate their respective priorities to be ignored.
Men prefer solving any problem on their own to prove their superiority, while women are more towards the combine assistance when encountered with any situation. In the process, both try to meander via their natural instinct, thus leading to a misunderstanding among the two!
Hard times have women all talking and men mum
Men mostly prefer communicating less during any situation, to ponder over for the best solution for the problem but women have an impulse of communicating more, just for their sake, so that the others find them the solution to their problems. This mostly leads to one-sided endless conversation, thus leading to an even tougher situation!
Men and women speak two different languages
Men and women are both really different when it comes to expressing their thoughts and feelings. Men mostly contemplate their feelings before speaking whereas women think while they speak. Men are more literal in their terms while women are usually more artistic and dramatic. This huge difference can sometimes, lead to a bigger tiff, thus burgeoning it more!
A Relationship is all about give and take
Every existent relationship under the sun is about give and take. If the person only takes and never gives, then, of course, even one-sided love has a saturation! which leads to a break -up! So, it is always essential to keep it even when in a relationship, in order to get rid of any commotion!
Men are delighted if left by themselves to solve the crunch, while women aid for support
Men always love to be by themselves and feel highly blissed, when given the personal space, whereas women on the other hand, usually don’t prefer taking the “personal space”, so seriously! However, personal space must be given, by both the sides!
Men lock when feared of their self-sufficiency, while women emotionally drown!
Men usually bolt themselves and prefer to stay isolated when not given a personal space. However, they immediately spring back to action when done the same. Their harshness for the time being only shrieks out for their lone time!
Women, however, tend to emotionally drift into the negative thoughts and hence, require a constant assistance to drain out their negative feelings, through talking or just being with their loved one, thereby, retracting to their phase of happiness!
A Relationship is a maze to accomplish the bond through understanding and comfort seeking, however, encountering the natural hurdles, both tend to deviate from the same!